
So after hearing from many of my women friends, I had to post a public service announcement for the benefit of all... So to all y'all women out there I'ma let ya in on a lil' secret, there are 2 things that you absolutely need to be aware of
1. The upstanding men you're looking for but never can seem to find not only exist, but are easily accessible. The problem is you spend so much time searching for this perfect guy, that you overlook all the good ones seemingly right infront of your face. Oh and once you find that guy you think is great, you string him around is some bizarre ritual to make him "prove his merit"... Fail
2. All of you women out there who are constantly stressing are what to get your man for Christmas/Birthdays you are making this way too dificult. You already know what your man wants, it's simple take the thing that he likes to do that you absolutely hate and get him something along those lines... You hate how your man plays soooo many video games? Get him the latest one. You hate how your guy spends hours watching football on sundays? Get him a TV or a jersey or something football related. Your man keeps wearing that same hoodie that is starting to get torn up and such and it drives you crazy? Get him one exactly like it possibly in a different color... I know you're thinking "Ian, I hate these things, why would I feed into the the things that drive me crazy". That is a good question... you do it because you are giving the gift, not recieving it, and it's not really about what you hate. The reason why we do these things although we know it gives you grey hairs is cause we like them and it'd be nice to recieve a gift that we're gonna like, not one that you'll like for us.
Now I know some of yall are gonna read this and think it's about you, and truth be told you'll be partially right. I just figured I would share the advice with everyone
Eww I will NOT get Mikke a video game or sports thing.. puke!
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